Thursday 17 March 2011

Thoughts on Going From 1 Kid to 2

  1. All babies are hard work. Just because you've done it before, doesn't make it less hard work. 
  2. It is easier though because you're not on such a steep learning curve re baby stuff. 
  3. You are on a different learning curve - how to do family life, and baby care, with another child to look after as well as the older one.
  4. Life is busier. You learn how to manage without regular child nap times during the day - being on duty for about 12 hrs a day straight.
  5. You have to be more organised and a bit ruthless in what you aim to get done, and what you leave undone.
  6. It is easier to work out what to do with Michael aged 1 than it was with Hamish - I know what sorts of toys will entertain him amd I don't have to fill in the hours so much because Hamish provides a lot of fun and activity!
  7. The house is already baby proof.
  8. Toddlers are still babies in many respects. They still need a lot of attention and help with daily care. I probably underestimated this before having Michael.
  9. Although having the first child does dramatically change life, having the second has made it feel more like the family is in full swing. Adam gets involved more in child care and we're adapting our days around the needs of the kids, and are able to do more fun stuff as Hamish gets older too.
  10. That's all I can think of for now!

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